Real Charisma, Real Seduction

Real seduction comes naturally from real charisma, not from some combination of hypnosis, NLP, and Jedi mind tricks. Don’t get me wrong: advanced hypnotic techniques and NLP are incredibly powerful, and they do work. Many kinds of influence technologies are effective with the opposite sex, and several of them are recommended on this site. But at the end of the day, real charisma comes from being true to yourself.

You can choose to be charismatic, and seductive, and those qualities can definitely become more powerful in yourself because of the programs for self-development you employ. But the bottom line is that real charisma, real self-confidence, and real magnetism come from your own innate inner power. You must hang out with yourself enough to experience who you really are, not just learn a lot of cool techniques to feel powerful and try to trick someone into your bed. In the long run, it doesn’t matter what you look like, or how rich you are or how much experience you have. It does matter how much you know yourself. A little meditation is more important than a lot of mesmerism.

You can tell when charisma is real: there’s no feeling that someone appreciates your act more than they appreciate you. Likewise, you can tell when seduction is real: there’s no feeling that the other person is being seduced by the successful application of whatever method you’ve learned. Instead, they are there to be with you.